SESSIONS

My signature Tender Core experience. 500+ sessions. Four years of devotion to this work.

I created this because I was looking for this exact experience myself and I couldn't find it… this touhc experience is where is all began.

I wanted somewhere I could experience sensuality without having to perform. Somewhere I could be close to another human, be cared for, nurtured and touched, while still feeling completely connected to my own choices and boundaries.

I wanted to know: what does intimacy feel like when I don't have to do anything in return?

So I built it.

For the past four years I've been cultivating, experimenting with and refining this experience through more than 500 sessions, putting this particular style of sensual bodywork on the map in Melbourne and touring it around Australia.

It has always been a work of particular devotion to queer women and queer folks — created with an understanding that many of us were never given particularly useful maps for our bodies, pleasure, receiving or intimacy.

And really, this experience is about receiving a truer experience of intimacy.

Closeness. Care. Nurturing. Attention. Pleasure. Being with another person without needing to entertain them, impress them, look a certain way or make something happen.

You don't need to know what to do.

You get to be guided through it. This is above all an embodied experience of RECEIVING.

We begin with conversation about where you're at that day, what you're curious about, what you don't want, what you might want, and anything else that feels important. We talk through boundaries and consent before moving into meditation and breathwork, allowing you time to actually arrive in your body before touch begins.

Depending on the session and what we have agreed together, the experience can include:

• meditation and guided embodiment

• breathwork

• boundaries and consent discussion

• slow, intentional sensual massage

• breast/chest massage, where desired and agreed

• space to communicate, pause, change your mind or talk about anything that arises on the day

There is no goal you have to reach and no particular response you're supposed to have. Just the space to see what feels good!

For me, that's the rebellion.

We've been given so many versions of intimacy that are mechanical, goal-focused or centred around how we are being experienced by somebody else.

This is about discovering how intimacy feels when you are allowed to receive it.

To be cared for. To soften. To notice what you want. To practise your yes and your no. To experience closeness while remaining completely yourself.

That is why, after 500+ sessions, this remains the most famous experience inside Tender Core and still one of the pieces of work I am most devoted to.

Who is this for?

This experience has held so many different people over the years, and there is no one reason you need to come.

You might be:

• Queer curious and wanting a gentle, guided space to explore intimacy, sensation and closeness outside of the scripts you've always known.

• A late-blooming queer who is beginning to discover a whole new relationship with your body, pleasure or sexuality and wants somewhere to explore without pressure to already know what you're doing.

• A lesbian or queer person who hasn't experienced closeness or pleasure in a while and is craving touch, tenderness and connection again.

• Post-break-up, finding your way back to yourself and wanting to experience closeness that doesn't require dating, performing or being ready for another relationship.

• Feeling isolated, lonely or touch-starved and simply missing the experience of being held, cared for and close to another human being.

• A trans babe wanting a gender-affirming experience of your body — where we talk beforehand about the language, areas of your body, boundaries and forms of touch that feel affirming for you.

• Someone whose boundaries have been crossed in the past and who wants to explore touch again with an emphasis on choice, communication and agency. For some people this may be something we approach slowly over several sessions, where saying yes, no, stop, slower, more or changing your mind are all welcomed and respected.

• Or maybe you don't have anything you need to work on at all. Maybe you simply want to experience devotion. To be adored, nurtured, attended to and receive an experience that is entirely about you for once.

You don't need to arrive confident, experienced or knowing exactly what you want.

That's part of the experience. Practice stepping into something that find feel slightly risky will the intention of growth on the other side.

We talk. We establish boundaries. We get curious about what your body is saying. And then I guide you through an experience of closeness where you are allowed to receive without having to give anything back.

Sometimes you don't need another thing to understand. Sometimes you need an experience that shows your body what else is possible!!!!!!

I also offer free 20-min ‘Sus-the-vibe’ zoom chats so that you sus if we are a good fit.